She's probably right

Don't forgive but forget.

But that would just sugar-coat how things are. Making it seem ok.

It's far from ok. I would lose my dignity by saying it's ok. It would be teaching her it's ok to do that to anyone. It would be an insult to all the frustration of everyone else. Wasting their concern. And a failure on my part to teach her to be better.

What do I do?

Fire the fireballs? Freeze the ice? Release the shadows? Tell my orchestra to play?

Or should I call and say "goodbye? see you in a month"? just to show there's no hard feelings? well there isn't much in the way of resentment because I refused to let myself be bathed in bitterness again.

But then again. There's no right answer to this situation I guess.

Differing perceptions of everyone on the problem. My assumptions on her reaction may be wrong. But one thing doesn't change. I have no expectations.

Just as the title of this blog.